Wednesday, August 05, 2009

Negativity is creeping in

I think there comes a point when no matter how much hope you have, negativity and doubt will always find a way to creep on in. That's where we sit now. 3dp6dt (IVF lingo for 3 days past our day 6 transfer) and feeling nothing...not that I necessarily should be...but I can't help but be anxious, nervous and scared for what lies ahead. Please be relentless in your prayers...

13 comments:

embieadoptmom said...

Don't be letting it creep in sister. I will pray for you as I lay in bed tonight! God bless! Your babies are snuggling in! I just know it!

graspthelove said...

PRAYING PRAYING PRAYING!! Keep your thoughts on what you KNOW - God is faithful - He will never leave you nor forsake you - He holds tomorrow - His ways are higher than your ways - I believe you encouraged me by saying, "don't miss the NOW!". Blessings!

Ter said...

I know it doesn't help anything to say "that's normal", but it is. In a couple of weeks, you'll know if it worked (*fingers crossed*). That's sooner than you think! ((hugs))

Becks said...

We are praying for you! I'm sure you are on an emotional roller coaster right now. I remember when I got pregnant, I didn't feel ANYTHING for the first 2 weeks. And then I started spotting and cramping, and I thought I was starting my period. I didn't start getting morning sickness (haha, try all day sickness) until I was almost 6-7 weeks. Thats a month and a half! So a few days is really early to be looking for signs :)

We are praying for you and your husband and those two little rock star embyos! Grow babies grow!

Kristen said...

~*~*~*~*~*STAY OUT NEGATIVITY~*~*~*~*~*

I'm staying positive for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Amy said...

As someone who has been pregnant five times, I can tell you from experience: there was absolutely NO difference in symptoms -- or lack thereof -- between my BFP and my BFN cycles. None. In fact, I can't name even one person who felt pg before it was beta/test time. But then again, I can totally see where you're coming from with the diminishing hope. It's so hard when you want something so badly, to be scared it won't happen. I'll keep hope up for you!! {{HUG}}

Piccinigirl said...

Nope, no negativity allowed. I felt awful in the 2WW and not PG awful, just YUCK.
Hang in there, I am praying and sending lots of POSITIVE, HOPEFUL thoughts to you.
*hug*

Erica @ on the move said...

I never felt any difference in the beginning either. I always said that if it weren't for a positive test/missed period, I wouldn't know I was pregnant for at least 3 months.

Also, a while ago you said to contact you for pre-school game ideas. Well, I'm contacting you! When you get the chance if you wouldn't mind sending them along to ericamcmillian(at)gmail(dot)com. Craft ideas, too.

I'm anxiously awaiting the next update!

Mama Razzi said...

Not to sound like a broken record, but it is so true. You really don't feel any different. I even took another test with my 2nd one when I was a good 10 weeks along because I didn't feel any different...no morning sickness, nothing. Keep your chin up and don't let Satan creep in on you...Praise be to the Lord :-) For HE is MIGHTY!

Giovanna said...

I found your blog through Designer Blogs. I wanted to encourage you to be positive. The 2WW is though! I even bled a little one week after transfer but ended up with a BFP! Stay positive! Have faith!

Candi said...

Praying for you, Teri!

Jack said...

You guys are in our prayers. I know it is hard to stay positive but we are all praying for you! God Bless

Kate said...

Praying so hard for you guys, Teri! It's way too soon to "feel" anything! Stay positive!